Difficult to ask money from parents
I want to buy a home in Pune and I don't have that much corpse to give down payment and little bit hesitant to ask from father . I know it's bit difficult because he is also retired and limited corpus he got because my grandfather was not richman he ( father ) did everything on his own but my wife and her parents think my father has lot of money and indirect pressure from my wife to buy house and my father in law is offering money indirectly that I dont want to take . I will be hurt if my father doesn't agree to give atleast down payment and I am afraid of rejection.my mother said ask atleast he is your father I know he will not give but atleast ask him
Suggestions pls
Don’t succumb to the pressure. Tell them you don’t have money. Whenever my relative asks or advice me to buy a house - I ask them to finance everything. 🤣🤣🤣 they don’t have a come back after that. Bolo account me kuch nahi hai…Pura aap hi de do
Bolna bht aasan h sirjee..aap father in law ko aise ni bol sakte..
There would be a great pride if you get the whole thing done through your sweat and blood instead of relying on anyone.. n if you know parents don't have a big Corpus, it's best to not put them in a spot.
Sirjee this is absolutely correct but u can't fight everyday with wife that she should understand the situation..because I know she would not understand.. because according to her , my father has done everything for my younger brother not for me.. according to her , my father is a biased person and I feel bad about it..she has incoperated these things in my head..and it's complicated
mata pita se sharm kaisa..aapko nanga dekhe hai
Not a good idea.
I can understand the pressure but honestly asking money for big purchases from parents, is going to do no good.
Today you are listening to your in laws to purchase a home, tomorrow your parents will taunt you for purchasing the property using their money.
Best case is you ask your wife to understand the situation, plan for down payments (say the market is going to fall in next couple of years) and then purchase it using your own money.
First of all u and ur wife decide if u want to buy the house. If u two want it really u can discuss with your father. He is ur father. If he says no try to take it as loan type like u will return. But don't b like wife n father in law wants it. If u bring that u will create a mess. Also nothing is wrong If father is law is offering help. I am a parent my self n I would love to offer all help to get my children settled afterall I am earning n saving for them. It's what family does - support eachother to grow!
Same thing I am suffering.. just take your time to settle up things and say them yes yes yes yes thats all
😂😂 wtf she think
Bhai Jab Itna Darna Hain To Apni Wife Ko Samjha Hum Rent reh lenge. Rent pe rehna koi buri baat nhi hain
