DancingWalrus
DancingWalrus

Did I do it right?

I'm 23 years old. I met this girl on insta. She's good and family is good too. We dated for a while and got really close. Even with her parents I was pretty close. They liked me alot. But things turned when they told me to get married next year. To be honest, I don't have that kind of money to marry right now. Maybe 2-4 years of saving and investing money will help. I have alot on my plate right now... Her parents were focusing me to marry next year itself. And i couldn't take it anymore. I broke up.

I think, I'll die alone. But that's fine. As long as I keep doing my task to bring a smile and teach them to be kind enough to everyone and themselves. That's all I want.

Once that's done. I don't need to be here anymore.

13h ago
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PeppyBoba
PeppyBoba

what age did your dad and mom got married?

you are just a slave to capitalism so keep you head down and improve the kpis for the stakeholders till your deathbed.

DancingWalrus
DancingWalrus

They got married at 30.

Everyone is a slave. But is there someone to understand a slave??

GigglyMochi
GigglyMochi

Dude, If the girl and family are good consider marrying in the next couple of years!

Money you guys anyways gonna earn down the lane if it is your only concern!!

DancingWalrus
DancingWalrus

They are good until. I forgot to mention the most important point of my breakup. There's a tradition in their family when the girl turns 24. Get her married ASAP. When I asked for more time. They didn't agree to it. Wanted me to buy gold, start saving alot of money for marriage already. And the most heartbreaking part is my ex was forcing me to say something positive even when I had said no already.

QuirkyCoconut
QuirkyCoconut

Bruh! You want to get married at 24? Which la la land are you in?
Please focus on career for a while and then take this decision, convince girls parents. Remember you also have your parents to take care of.

DancingWalrus
DancingWalrus

True that brother. You can look at the comment above and my reply for it. The tradition was the most biggest red flag..I'm taking care of the house loan at 23. There's nothing much I do for myself which is fine but I will take care of my parents and my family first.

Ladki kya pata. No girl will ever wait for a man who is struggling.

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