DancingWalrus
DancingWalrus
3mo

Did I do it right?

I'm 23 years old. I met this girl on insta. She's good and family is good too. We dated for a while and got really close. Even with her parents I was pretty close. They liked me alot. But things turned when they told me to get married next year. To be honest, I don't have that kind of money to marry right now. Maybe 2-4 years of saving and investing money will help. I have alot on my plate right now... Her parents were focusing me to marry next year itself. And i couldn't take it anymore. I broke up.

I think, I'll die alone. But that's fine. As long as I keep doing my task to bring a smile and teach them to be kind enough to everyone and themselves. That's all I want.

Once that's done. I don't need to be here anymore.

3mo ago
PeppyBoba
PeppyBoba

what age did your dad and mom got married?

you are just a slave to capitalism so keep you head down and improve the kpis for the stakeholders till your deathbed.

DancingWalrus
DancingWalrus

They got married at 30.

Everyone is a slave. But is there someone to understand a slave??

QuirkyCoconut
QuirkyCoconut

Bruh! You want to get married at 24? Which la la land are you in?
Please focus on career for a while and then take this decision, convince girls parents. Remember you also have your parents to take care of.

DancingWalrus
DancingWalrus

True that brother. You can look at the comment above and my reply for it. The tradition was the most biggest red flag..I'm taking care of the house loan at 23. There's nothing much I do for myself which is fine but I will take care of my parents and my family first.

Ladki kya pata. No girl will ever wait for a man who is struggling.

SquishyNarwhal
SquishyNarwhal

Times have changed, each to themselves, there is no right or wrong here

PeppyRaccoon
PeppyRaccoon

That's a stupid reason to break up if you actually liked the girl. Bro, there's no need for a marriage to be overly expensive, just do a court marriage and make it official. Don't pay heed to the noises from society and live your life with your chosen partner in your own terms avoiding pressure from others.

DancingWalrus
DancingWalrus

Actually I tried that. But yet her parents weren't agreeing to delay the wedding. 24 means 24 as per her family tradition.

WigglyPanda
WigglyPanda

Bro, tbh, you did the right thing. 23-24 is too early to get married.

DancingWalrus
DancingWalrus

I know bro!

FluffyMuffin
FluffyMuffin

Love your live bro, have girlfriends enjoy life.... And marry only if you can take up responsibilities of wife....and dramas

Till then untill you get there

DancingWalrus
DancingWalrus

I just want one woman for all my life. That's all brother..

FuzzyKoala
FuzzyKoala
2mo

Lol! @OtherSide

WigglyUnicorn
WigglyUnicorn

Awesome dude.. 🙌🏻

DancingWalrus
DancingWalrus

Thank you bro!! I did what was right to me! Nobody will know the choices I had. Even I want to marry and settle down but forcing is another thing bro.

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