WigglyPretzel
WigglyPretzel
32mo

Did dating apps work for you

If yes any tips , tell your story

Yes ๐Ÿ˜—๐Ÿ‘
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32mo ago
FloatingBurrito
FloatingBurrito

Kind of a long game for men than for women, the algorithm takes about a 1 or 2 to start recommending you to others.

  1. Swipe when there is high active users, usually on Friday after work hours or Sunday late night. This is because people want to find someone to go out on the weekends. And Sunday is usually because they just had a bad weekend/ date.
  2. Put 5 pics on the profile, try not to overwhelm your first impression. Please all with smiling faces, no one wants to meet a sad person they just had a shitty workweek. Have a blend of just you with different activities and 1 group pic ( tells you are ok socializing). Please say no to selfies. No shirtless pics, no women don't like them. Try not to put gym pics, if you want to flash your muscles put it with an activity.
  3. Keep updating you bio/status women read them, most men don't. Have something related to what you like. Even putting a sarcastic one liner works something but try to make it 3 to 4 lines about you (I have never seen a woman right swipe any men without a bio).
  4. Don't swipe right everyone, make the algorithm know you are human and your preferences.
  5. Never start with hi or hello, it will not get you any reply. Try something off beat, something related to the bio or related to you. Make conversation about them rather than you. Try checking on Charisma on Command videos might help how to approach people.
  6. Never stay in the chat, always try to meet afk. Maybe after 1 or 2 conversations you ask her insta id, WhatsApp number is a no go because of privacy.

You will have to try and figure out a way to beat the algorithm. This usually takes a month to start getting good matches and you getting used to it. But really if you are searching for a partner, online dating never works. Go out meet new people and make connections, check out Facebook groups that just want people to go nearby places. Get a new hobby.

GoofyDonut
GoofyDonut

Mini dating course 101

FuzzyNoodle
FuzzyNoodle

Sir Kitna pay karna hai Aapko, Gpay or Paiitym

MagicalPotato
MagicalPotato

Tumhari Bhabhi Bumble pe hi mili ๐Ÿ˜‹

ZippyDumpling
ZippyDumpling

Haila, yeh bhi feku mai bhi feku

Congratulations tho sir

MagicalPotato
MagicalPotato

Lol what is so surprising.
If you're either in Gurgaon, BLR, BOM you can have an active social life through Bumble/Hinge. Bio funny likho aur photos nangi mat daalo.

MagicalMarshmallow
MagicalMarshmallow

Yes, it proved to me that I'll not get laid using this. I will have to go out in the real world and ask someone for coffee.

Worked way better than swiping for me!

DancingKoala
DancingKoala
32mo

How do you approach the female??

MagicalMarshmallow
MagicalMarshmallow

I am blessed with some talents ๐ŸŽธ๐ŸŽค This helps!

BouncyDumpling
BouncyDumpling
32mo

Buy premium, thatโ€™s the only way

TwirlyNoodle
TwirlyNoodle

man works at bumble and says gojek

GigglyBiscuit
GigglyBiscuit

Not sure about dating apps like bumble and tinder I have used Aisle and BetterHalf to find my wife/partner am not into casual dating stuff.
I was active in these apps for over a year.
After lots of ups and downs I thought of deleting my accounts due to constant rejection and betrayal
Just then when I thought of deleting I found the love of my life.
I haven't been more excited ever in my life.

The final thing I say is its purely based on luck and yes there are good people in these apps.

WobblyCoconut
WobblyCoconut
32mo

Bhai aisle kaam karta hai kya? Critical mass hai londiyo ka?

Meko Hinge kafi decent laga.

GigglyBiscuit
GigglyBiscuit

utna kaam nahi karta For me BetterHalf worked well

FluffyTaco
FluffyTaco

Probably 90% of that 30% who said yes are women

ZestyNarwhal
ZestyNarwhal

Nah itโ€™s not that hard for men just be little quirky and find a niche of what type of person u wanna match with

ZippyMochi
ZippyMochi

Why is this under software engineering lol

CosmicLlama
CosmicLlama

If you have enough money.. even typewriter can help you get a date...

WigglyQuokka
WigglyQuokka

Ctc mention on Bumble is the last thing i want to see

GoofyDonut
GoofyDonut

Matrimonial sites have entered the chat

JumpyMochi
JumpyMochi

I have used these apps from a long time following are the types of girls you will encounter... 1 . No real photo , insta, WhatsApp (don't know why they even use it). 2.Hot girls (will never swipe right, if they do , you are already ghosted). 3.looking for new friends.( On a hook-up app seriously). 4.here for a while ( I have seen you 10 times already honey). 5. Hook-up girls ( you need to have god level texting game along with flashy profile to get them basically you should be a rizzmaster, but only few will say it upfront, they will test your skills first). 6.Insta influencer (they just want you to follow their page) 7.Decent girls ( very few approachable genuine girls, if you have decent profile and texting game, securing a date is not that difficult). 8. Small town girls ( they will never take it out of the app , they think if they show their face guy will come to her house).

If I have missed any type feel free to add.

So based on the type you want , optimize your profile and texting game.

Odds of getting matches for a average profile are similar to qualifying Jee mains and converting these matches to a date is like JEE advanced.

WigglyPenguin
WigglyPenguin

follow Rules 1 & 2:

  1. Be attractive.
  2. Don't be unattractive.
GigglyNarwhal
GigglyNarwhal

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