SparklySushi
SparklySushi
23d

Developed a crush on a coworker who has a boyfriend. How do I detach without making awkward

I've developed a crush on someone at my office, she already has a boyfriend. I keep getting attached even though I know nothing can happen and it's starting to mess with my head. I don't want to create awkwardness at work or across any boundaries, but I also don't know how to stop feeling this way. Has anyone dealt with something similar? How did you move on or detach??

23d ago
DizzyBoba
DizzyBoba

Have you not watched the Animal movie of ranbir kapoor?

Alpha male takes what he wants.

SparklySushi
SparklySushi

Bro, not the advice I was looking for :p

SparklyPotato
SparklyPotato

Same animal movie don't have movie,
If something wrong conveyed he will be jailed

SwirlyMuffin
SwirlyMuffin

Moh Maya. Its a never ending loop.

SparklySushi
SparklySushi

It really is, every time you feel some connection :(

ZippyLlama
ZippyLlama

You will need to switch, there is no other way!. I’m feeling the same way. I have been in the firm around 2 years, first when joining after few months, I developed the crush on someone and after a year, i was still waiting if anyone has good friendship with her, so they can introduce me to her, but unfortunately no one had. I decided to confess my feelings in a weird way and I had no other choice. Her parents has started to find a groom for her, I was too late and my mind was always stuck about my feelings on her in office and weekends as well, i feel shy talking to her, and havent talked to her properly after confessions are made. If I need to clear out my mind, I have to switch for another company for a fresh restart.

ZippyCupcake
ZippyCupcake
23d

Try to make distance from her, talk less with her, get yourself busy, focus on some activity, don't listen to songs which bring her into your thoughts. slowly feelings will fade.

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