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PerkyBiscuit
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[Controversial] Why are men getting hurt by men and women alike?

I'm fairly new to this platform, but in last week I have seen posts appreciating men and celebrating women

The posts have comments from men demeaning their own. I don't understand why. Who taught us to be like that?

I am a man, I have vulnerable self doubt thoughts, but I would never put down another human (any gender)

Is it something common on this platform?

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JumpyLlama
JumpyLlama
EY13mo

Some people do to get reach and views by putting negative / controversial comments. Men are easy targets as compared to women hence they are attacked by both genders.

PerkyBiscuit
PerkyBiscuit
Laid-off13mo

Easy targets? Women are not attacking men here

JumpyLlama
JumpyLlama
EY13mo

I am not talking just your case but a common scenario. Yours is included within this, just one part of it.

DancingTaco
DancingTaco
Flipkart13mo

I feel you are talking about my post where I appreciated men. Btw, I changed my name from coco to pretty.

DizzyLlama
DizzyLlama
Atlys13mo

Your post wasn't anything close to demeaning

DancingTaco
DancingTaco
Flipkart13mo

OP is saying many comments by men were demeaning.

SillyJellybean
SillyJellybean
Stealth13mo

Fighting amongst women is just as common. There's just not enough women here, that's why it's not as visible or apparent.

PerkyBiscuit
PerkyBiscuit
Laid-off13mo

You clearly missed the point again. Why do you have to point fingers at others? Gotta fix ourselves first

SillyJellybean
SillyJellybean
Stealth13mo

Because it's part of living in a society. Society dictates what is acceptable and what isn't.

WobblyNoodle
WobblyNoodle
InMobi13mo

Looks like again missed some weekly e-lafda on GV 😅

PerkyBiscuit
PerkyBiscuit
Laid-off13mo

😂 I saw one of your posts got high adrenaline, the arrange marriage one

WobblyNoodle
WobblyNoodle
InMobi13mo

It was just a comment. Marriage is an interesting topic in India 🤣

SparklyPanda
SparklyPanda
EY13mo

I have seen few posts (felt like posted by men) talking shit about women in general/ women colleagues so I wonder if something is inherently wrong with some men 🤔

ZestyQuokka
ZestyQuokka
Hinge13mo

Many! Post it on memes and try laughing it off 😑

ZestyDonut
ZestyDonut
Oracle13mo

Mostly trolls. Some are mentally sick.

BubblyBiscuit
BubblyBiscuit
Stealth13mo

I mean men also call out each other here, saw a post where classic woman bashing was happening and the top comment happened to be of a man with the most upvotes, you'll always have the few problematic ones ig🤷‍♀️.

PerkyWalrus
PerkyWalrus
CARS2413mo

How to eat 🍿 101

SleepyJellybean
SleepyJellybean
Stealth13mo

I guess they need an outlet to vent their frustration from real life and so they turn that into toxicity here on GV but its well known such men try to bring others down on social media.

DizzyLlama
DizzyLlama
Atlys13mo

Can you give examples of what this demeaning thing you are talking about? I am not able to find that

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