Confused and need help in choosing a partner for my cousin.
My cousin recently received two marriage proposals from within our community. He works in the tech industry, and interestingly, one is also in tech, while the other is a teacher.
In terms of personality, both seem to be kind and well-natured, though it's still too early to make any definitive judgments.
That said, my cousin isn’t focused on how much the girl earns. What truly matters to him is finding someone who will love him, support and uplift him, and show respect to both him and his family.
The only concern he mentioned about marrying someone from the tech field is the demanding work hours. He feels that if both partners are in tech, their schedules might be hectic and exhausting, which could lead to fatigue and less quality time together due to the nature of the job.
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If he has concern now with tech job,than he should surely go for other girl. Truly life is equally hectic for men n women in corporate job.
His only concern is, due to hectic job it should not affect her health, his sister had miscarriage due to a stressful job that's why.
Your cousin lives in cloud cuckoo land.
Either this or he is T1 tech company, and spending a lot of time with the so-called liberal crowd making him delusional.
In arranged marriage you don't evaluate the bride , you evaluate her family. You don't evaluate the groom alone, you evaluate his family and his earning potential. Of course one can always spew the usual BS to society, I look for mutual compatibility, good soul, heart ,kidney etc ...
Choose the tech match.
A job here is meaningless. When choosing between family and work, women instinctively will pick family. Unless they have good family support, women will not pick a career over their kids.
A job/career they would pick is when the work time is in their control or its reasonable.
What is the age of your cousin?
30
Go for a housewife...
100 of other variables matter bro