Can I get a gf in current scenario?
I'm 22 M , Average in looks and other stuff, I'm getting fomo or feeling left behind when I see my friends gf , and how easily they're talking to girls, I don't know I want a gf or not but yeah I want someone in my life who I can share things about my life except my roomies, Want to clear it I don't have any sexual desire,never been. Just wanted someone to listen how I listen to others. Yeah I know this post is going out of the context but I just want to rant or just ask you people like can I get one if yes where to find them, or if I just want to become better in this field what to add? Help me if you can otherwise thanks for listening.
Go start workouts gym cardio diet . Invest 12 to 16 weeks you will feel confident. Invest in good clothing . If you are in any city in India visit a nice bespoke tailor get super 110-130 wool blend trouser material and make it Italian style . Get Giza cotton linen shirts tailored for your fit . Get some good pair of good quality leather shoes . Get this perfume leather and saffron. Invest in some nice perfumes. Get some very nice slim fit jeans and fitting polo Tshirt’s . This all will work only when you groom yourself
Thanks I started grooming but I don't like going over the top as I think clothes are the extension of your personality mine one more align with oversized clothes and streetwear so I carry them, for perfume I'm gonna invest thanks again, and yeah I do gym 5 days a week and play badminton in rest. I'm pretty confident but just bottom introvert in front of girls.
Just make more female friends over time and get practice talking to them. Small talk, small steps. You'll get there eventually.
I started dating when I was 22 too, never imagined I'd end up dating so many women in my life. You have enough time, just have patience and make more friends first.
What my friends suggested but there is a problem how to not make any expectations from anyone,like this is the core reason for bad experience and anxiety etc
If you don't have sexual desire find some good friend, why just a GF.
Also, you are 22, focus on earning well first.
Bro you also agree somethings only girls understand better and can help you with, I have my homies and I can predict every next Convo on a topic with them, I know what are they gonna say and how are they gonna , they help me a lot , also I don't have any female friends I'm bottom introvert in that case.
Seek therapy
Have u tried dating app?
I'm not in position and I don't want
Dont go to dating apps. All you will get to have is waste your time and money and kill confidence!
