Can I ask my crush to "casually" join me for a cup of coffee after 6-7 interactions? Will it sound too despo? What if it gets too late if I wait?
Unrelated/pseudo-related info:
She is really fond of caffeine (Frontend developer rituals). She is like one of those coffee geeks. She has a spam account specially dedicated to various kinds of coffees around the globe. She also has a scrap book about various coffee beans. Kinda absurd (creeped me out initially when I saw it in her bag, she keeps them in those CID waale little specimen zip bags) but its her thing and I value her quirks.
I am not really a fan, but I do enjoy cold coffee once in a blue moon when the mood strikes.
But for her, I would.
Thankfully, she isnt into tea, because I just HATE chai (might trigger a lot of people, but it tastes like cardboard to me for some reason).
Every time I get stumbled by coffee aroma around me, it immediately reminds me of her voice.
Ok enough about my weaknesses. Now give me solutions.
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We are going to give me a tour of her scrap book on Monday during our office breaktime.
Chalo some progress✨
PS: Since you guys have been really amazing with your suggestions, will keep you posted of what happens next. Perhaps I can start a thread by the name "Coffee Crush" on public demand LOL.
what makes you think she isn't using GV ?
@samosa you never cease to amaze me. 🤣
Ask her to take you for coffee tasting.
Ask her which is the best coffee she has had in city, Ask her to take you or offer to go together
She sounds like a coffee fanatic, and would love to spread the coffee love. Also it keeps the focus on her Also also you get to taste good coffee (because you clearly haven't tried good tea 😒)
Well girls kinda know from the start just like to see whether the guy actually steps up or not. Just don't overdo it. When you feel you gave too much attention, pull it back. Makes girls go crazy 🙈
I agree with @BiryaniEnthu’s above comment, just One thing about crush is if u give them some hint that u have a crush on them, they will definitely feel special but also play with ur feelings 😝😝
Dont wanna creep her out. She is the reason why I have started to like WFO.
Just be sure that in the process of being this considerate, you don't end up becoming just friends. Do give hints, subtle and playful flirting to ensure she knows that you guys are not just good friends.
(Dont ask me how to do it, I failed to and ended up just being a friend).
Abey Dung saale..You are the most immatured Beta guy..With this attitude and with this kind of immatured thinking no girl can ever be your girlfriend..FYI I'm unlike you..
Tf fuck is wrong with you? How low can your self esteem get?
Just because you hate your life, you have no right to spread such hatred and fuckery in someone else's conversation.
Look at how well behaved others are and then look at your jealous little self.
I am glad we arent the same. Agreed.
Hey, Bangalore has so many amazing hidden coffee spots! I'm a huge coffee fan myself and I've been exploring a bunch of cool cafes lately. If your crush likes coffee, maybe you could casually ask her if she'd be interested in trying a new place with you sometime? It could be a fun way to get to know each other better.
Bhai mere , I also hate tea , don't know why, it's good for many people but I don't like it since childhood . I think someday If I'll get someone with same preference then ok otherwise to bhi chal jaayega
Just ask her out mate, don't overthink it. It's a huge step forward for guys wrt to making progress in their dating life.
In your specific case, take her to Blue Tokai (I've heard the coffee there is one of the best you can find in 'luru) & communicate subtly that this is a date. If you don't communicate your romantic intentions early enough, it'll be too late. Use text messaging platforms to your advantage.
If she's clearly not looking for anything romantic or if she's with someone, back off. Else put your foot down on the gas pedal, ask her out & take her out! 🦜
