SwirlyDumpling
SwirlyDumpling
6mo

Can a girl with decent looks ,bit workaholic, fitness enthusiast with MTech Tier 1 college can get a boy for marriage? Especially in South b

6mo ago
DizzyCoconut
DizzyCoconut

You must be joking, cuz even unemployed girls are marrying guys with 30lpa and 50lpa, and u even did mtech and working...u think u won't get any?

DizzyBoba
DizzyBoba

"more compatible, understanding, caring person"

compatible kaise bane bhai koi iske liye 😕

SwirlyDumpling
SwirlyDumpling

Getting rejected sometimes due to over qualifying

PrancingNarwhal
PrancingNarwhal

"bit workaholic" is where you might be getting rejected - people who earn a lot already have money so they try to optimize for family time.

Depends on your looks too, unlike me, guys prefer looks over salary, so a more beautiful tcs girl weighs a better option to them. Someone even had this poll on gv.

Also depends on your past and trustworthiness - if guys sense the girl is lying, they might not be interested or if you were sexually involved previously with one or more partners then a girl with a better past might weigh a better option to them irrespective of your salary.

The parameters posted by you are the ones which you think define you but remember they might not be exactly the same parameters the person choosing you might take into account.

SwirlyDumpling
SwirlyDumpling

That's the problem. People tend to choose beauty over efforts. This is where we feel world is never fair. Getting rejected by something which is not in our hands gives lot of pain

PrancingHamster
PrancingHamster

Get boy from faang/big4/automobile companies or business guys. They can match ur salary. Compatibility,caring unless u travel/spend time with guy u can't get what kind person is he.

If Arrange marriage look family background, guy attitude, understanding mindset in few meetings.

If love marriage choose a partner suitable for u. Date them all things are in ur hands.. fail or success.

All the Best

SwirlyDumpling
SwirlyDumpling

Being raised in an orthodox way, I may not enjoy dating different guys.

DizzyBurrito
DizzyBurrito
6mo

In what reality Big 4 guys can match the salary 😭

SillyPenguin
SillyPenguin

When a girl with no job can get a boy for marriage, then congratulations you'll definitely get

SwirlyDumpling
SwirlyDumpling

Yes, it's there but I am looking for more compatible, understanding, caring person . Curious to know how other girls are finalizing a boy there

GoofyBiscuit
GoofyBiscuit

U seem like independent bold brave straightforward, it's really difficult for women like us, to get partners...

SquishyQuokka
SquishyQuokka

I know one of my friend whose wife is in Amazon earning close to 1 crore, and my friend is earning 20 lakh. They are more compatible with each other. So I think at the end only compatibility matters and not how much one is earning

MagicalCoconut
MagicalCoconut

Girl. Focus on your self esteem and confidence. Why do you think so low of yourself

ZippyTaco
ZippyTaco

Have you tried dating? Try Hinge or Aisle best options apart from Shaadi.com if that's your calling.

BouncyBurrito
BouncyBurrito
Student
6mo

Age?

DerpyQuokka
DerpyQuokka

I think you need to write similar requirement for the boy to filter the right person in terms of professionalism (if he is also workaholic, it might not cause any problems in your personal life; there are other factors too).

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