Boys who are okay dating girls who smoke & drink regularly

It's her body she can do whatever she wants. But when it comes to dating/marrying someone then .. Drinking is okay ✅ Smoking is not ❌

This post reeks of insecurity and Andrew Tate energy

First up, is the mother of every child with birth defects/complications someone that smoked or drank through their 20s? I’m discounting those that indulged while pregnant, but you get my point. There are enough people who suffer without having done anything that you describe as causal factors

You forget that outside of a forcefully arranged marriage, there has to be a level of attraction between partners and that must match on both sides at the very least. If you don’t have vices and don’t want your partner to have them, fine, find someone who meets that criteria. And vice versa. But this sweeping ‘how can women put ‘things in her body’ is massive virgin energy. Grow up. Breathing in NCR means a girl in Delhi smokes by default. So all women from there are rejected by you, bro?

Do better. Meet real women who have their own strengths, insecurities, vices and dreams. Maybe then you’ll find a partner that respects you for who you are

FYI. I am married to a bombshell who makes us mean Negronis and trips with me on the weekends. This is all coming from a place of happiness and truth

I respect everyone’s individual choices. I never judge anyone. If a woman wants to smoke and drink everyday, that’s her choice. I can be friends with her. That being said, I can’t date her. I neither smoke nor drink. And I prefer a woman who don’t. Like me, most men prefer women who don’t smoke or drink… some are okay with either and some might be okay with both too. But I don’t. Everyone is entitled to have their own preferences.

Female gender have been facing restrictions and challenges due to biological design issues. I am not going to add anything to it from my side.

Ofcourse, it also helps that having a kid is not a must-have milestone in my life. I would rather like my partner to have few drinks with me.

Define regularly, because most people don't drink everyday. Smoke maybe.

I have no issues if she drinks knowing her limits. Smoking is a No.

But I like your optimism that dating people end up marrying. You went till kids, mate 😂

Irrespective of the gender,
IMO Drinking and smoking REGULARLY is a sign of some other issue.

If it's only about health and not anything else, one should also consider adding junk food, sugar etc to the list.
And where does it end? Should she also have a chart for life milestones because it looks like her entire life goal is only ( read primarily) delivering a healthy child for you!! She needs to be fit and in her prime to ensure that she delivers just the smartest and healthiest. Go beyond smoke and drinks to be on the safer side!!

Why are you making it specific to women dawg? Alcohol and smoking are shit, for both genders. What about men doing this and that shit fucks up their babies DNA?

You can have unpopular opinions, but don’t forget the intent.

Well someday you’d be all out of your bubble and realise it doesn’t matter. As long as both partners are happy with each other the world is just another distraction