CosmicPenguin
CosmicPenguin

Blocked on WhatsApp

I am 27M and currently living in Bangalore. I met a girl(working in Delhi) on Shaadi.com around 1 month back and we exchanged our numbers after talking for a while. 5 days back we exchanged our profiles and she asked me for my payslip. I had no problem sharing that but I asked her as well to share her payslip. When I asked her payslip, she literally said "OK happy search. We can't talk anymore." and blocked me.

I was like WTF. I am still not sure what did I do wrong and is this normal behavior?

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SwirlyHamster
SwirlyHamster

Where was this girl from? Native place

BubblyDumpling
BubblyDumpling

Golddiggara

CosmicPenguin
CosmicPenguin

That girl was from Patna, I am too πŸ˜‡.

MagicalMochi
MagicalMochi

Congrats. You escaped from a mess.

SquishyWaffle
SquishyWaffle

Honest truth is step up, and find a bride for yourself. If it goes wrong, at least you won't have anyone else to blame.

Kab tak yeh dusro k sahare life ka har kaam karte rahoge typical South Asian Raja bete ki tarah?

CosmicPenguin
CosmicPenguin

Can you elaborate on the step up part?

TwirlyCupcake
TwirlyCupcake

Should have asked her 10th standard scorecard instead. Would have been much more insulting.

MagicalCupcake
MagicalCupcake

Gand jaal jati πŸ˜„πŸ˜„πŸ˜„πŸ˜„πŸ˜„

GigglyPanda
GigglyPanda
IBM2d

Welcome to β€œbeing a man”

CosmicPenguin
CosmicPenguin

Yup

FluffyCoconut
FluffyCoconut

Good for you. You will get a good girl

CosmicPenguin
CosmicPenguin

Thanks bro.

CosmicLlama
CosmicLlama

First mistake was sharing payslip.. This is the problem with most men... they claim they have nothing to hide....

Ideal response should be some stupid line like - "never ask a women her age, and men their pay"... she would have blocked anyway...

CosmicPenguin
CosmicPenguin

I didn't share my payslip though. I was about to share.

PerkyHamster
PerkyHamster

Most bihari women are gold diggers who didn't get to explore and go outside their third tier house, city and place for entirety of their childhood. Ignore them at all costs. You dodged a bullet. Trust me!

CosmicPenguin
CosmicPenguin

No, I don't think so. She was working as a SDE-3 for a startup in Delhi-NCR.

SparklyBiscuit
SparklyBiscuit

All girls are like this only there, they can ghost you at any point of time

CosmicPenguin
CosmicPenguin

Is any app suitable for dating, let alone finding a partner?

SparklyBiscuit
SparklyBiscuit

I am using these online matrimonial sites for 2-3 years, its very hard to find a genuine and understanding partner these days

GigglyBanana
GigglyBanana

U were not at all wrong when u were transparent she should also have been the same. This abruptly ended. We females always prefer one being transparent over everything..
you are saved just be happy about it..hopefully you will find your soulmate soon..

CosmicPenguin
CosmicPenguin

Thanks

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