
Big regret in my life
I made a big mistake in my life. Everything was going well my career, my life but I ended up marrying the wrong person, and now we are getting divorced within a yearacter marriage. We met seven months before the marriage. During that time, my father passed away and our house construction was happening, so I was mentally overwhelmed. I put all my effort into the relationship, but she didn’t show much interest. Even before the marriage, I felt something was wrong, but I still went ahead because I didn’t want to worry my family who were already grieving. Now I feel sad because deep down I knew this could end in divorce, yet I went ahead. I don’t know why I did it, and it feels like everything was going well in my life until I collapsed it myself.
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Don't worry I did marriage in 2023 after 5 years relationship and within one week only she demanded divorce and ended up by divorce by staying only 2 weeks day on 2025 officially and she already remarried else but I'm happy now .Nowadays it is very unfortunate but you will get some more in life

Thats sucks man, What was the reason behind divorce, I mean even after staying in relationship for 5 yrs, what sudden went wrong?

It's very unfortunate and how u recover from this situation is a very hats off

Hey man one of close relative got diagnosed with stage 4 neck cancer last week.

There is no rhyme and reason to this life. There is no pattern, there is no bad karma bad result good karma happy life. The only way to pull through life is to imagine one self as pointless speck of dust wandering through journey, dont over analyse over mishap, dont cry nostalgic tears over happy moments, live one breath at a time.

Everything in nature is random.


I got Divorced this year too. I dated the Guy for two years before I married him, 4 years of Marriage together, I discovered in August he was serial Cheating on me with a lot of Women all over the place. Finally Left him after having forgiven him for years. Did not take Alimony or a single rupee not because I am Saint or anything but because personally for me I just didn't want anything to do with him anymore. I don't have any family, Lost all My mutual friends, Still in a dark place but getting through one day at a time. Good luck to you. Lots of strength too. Hang in there. It isn't easy but You're not going to be in this place forever. You'll come through. ✨🤍

Life always un predectible, its not easy to move on but try to shift the focus on career. Defintely you get best person again!!

You know the best part? That you have the courage to accept the fact that it was a mistake and you’re acting on it. There are countless instances where people are stuck with the wrong person and still don’t have the courage to take the right step for themselves. I know it’s really hard - but I’m sure you’re figure it out. More power to you, my friend! Take care!

Yap it takes guts to take the decision and separate. Others are in limbo for rest of their life

Once someone gave me advice, for happy life do not marry with a working women,

It's not about working or non working.. my friend is getting divorce she is House wife and he is paying half of salary for maintenance.. and for one time settlement its big money she is demanding

Outliers can be there in case of non-working also, but probability is very high if working

My marriage plans got halted after I got layed off. It's been seven months now. And I am in late 30s.

My marriage is also halted , but today I feel that god has made the correct decision about my life. Now I am doing my 3rd international trip now. I am single but my dream is now getting complete. If I follow all the conditions of girls , then I could not enjoy life that is my feeling today

So what d u plan on doing next? Staying single? Asking cause I'm 26m and single... Luck has usually not been that good for me... So.. was thinking of avoiding marrying altogether.. cause marrying the wrong person for life scares the sht Outta me.

What was the cause if I may ask

I am a women, I did marriage in 2021.
But after marriage I found that for women-
They need to do job with house hold work and after six months my in laws started to force me for kid.
And also I found that a female gets respect only if she is not a housewife. She gets respect according to her package/money.
I did marriage in my 30s and I am not happy at all because we can't take decisions after marriage. We are puppets of our in laws.
I will recommend to every women or men if you are worried about your marriage don't waste time in that
Enjoy your bachelor life as much as you can and try to marry a person or in laws who understands you.
Otherwise if you are happy without marriage then live your life without it.
Don't come in pressure of your family.
This is my personal experience.

It is your individual situation.. not true for everyone..

i am guy but i agree for women it's really necessary to have financial independence. do not live with in laws either.

