SleepyQuokka
SleepyQuokka
16h
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Asking for a friend

How long should a girl wait until she knows for sure the guy is being really genuine towards her and not just being all nice and cute to get her into bed?

also what are some if the signs?

And its true right - once you have sex with men they loose interest ?

Also how long should you wait before you let a guy kiss you? a month? 3 months?

16h ago
WigglyUnicorn
WigglyUnicorn

3months 14 days 9hrs 30 mins

SleepyQuokka
SleepyQuokka
9h

thank you

WigglyRaccoon
WigglyRaccoon

๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

ZestyBiscuit
ZestyBiscuit

Sex should be funโ€ฆit shouldnโ€™t feel mandatory..thatโ€™s the whole point

WigglyQuokka
WigglyQuokka

You are not a girl. I'm damn sure.

DizzyBoba
DizzyBoba

How are you so sure?

SqueakyCupcake
SqueakyCupcake

No, men don't lose interest once you have sex with them.

FluffyNugget
FluffyNugget

Right. They never had it in the first place. They were just acting interested.

PrancingMochi
PrancingMochi

Brocode

DerpyDonut
DerpyDonut
16h

There are no standard timelines ๐Ÿ˜‚ It depends on case to case and you should rely on your intuitions. Generally women have very strong gut feelings in such cases ๐Ÿ˜€

SleepyQuokka
SleepyQuokka
9h

i dont trust my gut anymore

DizzyMochi
DizzyMochi

No timeline, may be once you had sex you both will become more close to each other. It depends how you interact during sex. No standard timeline. It all depends on comfort level and your instincts. Surety in whats sense ? If you want only your husband should be intimate with you then get a ring first else no surety

BubblyMuffin
BubblyMuffin

There's no standard timeline. Trust your gut. If he or she is acting pushy and weird take a step back.

The fact that you're asking this question itself insinuates that you're not ready to get in bed with this person. Until you're sure and excited about doing it, don't. Don't just do it because the other person expects it.

GoofyPenguin
GoofyPenguin
10h

men and women both are wired differently. Men seek for intimacy and women for attachment. If man intrested in having good conversation and showing good connection after having the sex means he is mad for you. Most of the men say I love you before sex however if he says i love you after having sex then thats special.

DizzyKoala
DizzyKoala

Lol come out of your digital perception.

There is no timeline. It depends on how much effort both are giving in a relationship or to-be-relationship while also respecting the boundaries

PerkyBagel
PerkyBagel

Men and women have a physical need, if the experience was good they keep coming back. If the experience was not good they move on, the same is with women. When you know someone is not coming back/showing positive signs, it is time to move on and not go back to the same person. Regarding your question on kiss, Physical intimacy is very important for both men and women, so when both are comfortable go for it.

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