Asked my girl best friend out,8 years of friendship from childhood.
She said no, I thought after I will get job (15LPA+) I will ask her out but turned out life doesn't go according to you.
Feeling lost, looks like I don't have the person with whom I used to share my daily life with.
Suggestion please.
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You felt something,took a shot, didn't worked out, no worries, move on, someone else will come into your life.
Wonder if this much I can give to someone else
Think of it this way. If you can give something / someone this much, you can surely replicate this albeit every interaction is unique. You won't find someone EXACTLY like her again. So instead of looking for the same person, look for the same feeling. Find someone who puts you at ease or comfort.
But what made you think she was considering a romantic turn to your friendship? Just because she talked to you everyday doesn't mean she felt for you.
I'm sorry the situation wasn't in your favour, but sometimes it is for the best
Wow.... 8 years Have you watched "Meri pyari bindu". You don't need to feel sorry, or lost about it. She was not yours , she is not yours that's it. Enjoy what you got, and let her enjoy what she lost. Pyar to sab karte hai. Lekin koi aapse pyaar kare, ye sabko naseeb nahi hota. So you're not in any kind of loss. Be happy
Gym jaao, bench press maar
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+1 @Rhombus
If she never had a boyfriend that she was desiring for then she is looking for that and may be she wanted someone who you weren't my friend (every girl has a different criteria,) but you were her comfort zone but never felt that spark for you ,
Get another girl habibi. Go to Dubai for vacation with new girl
Move on buddy. Life is long and life is good. Deepinder also moved on from his IIT wife to Mexican model Grecia Munoz.
It could be Jaane tu ya Jaane na type situation. Give her some time and she might have feelings for you considering how much you care for her. Girls always take time to decide, their first response is always no even if it is yes in their mind. They will never say yes first. Call it attitude or wanting more attention or flirting from you, they will expect more efforts from guys to propose and win their hearts. That’s why women are from Venus and men are from Mars.
Giving me hopes??
Lol No ! Don’t ever go back to the One who Said NO .
As you have gained the experience of what to/how to talk to a women. You can focus on your career.
You did not mention your age. So build your career and keep yourself fit. Let love happen naturally/organically which will last longer.