SqueakyUnicorn
SqueakyUnicorn
Student

Asked my girl best friend out,8 years of friendship from childhood.

She said no, I thought after I will get job (15LPA+) I will ask her out but turned out life doesn't go according to you.

Feeling lost, looks like I don't have the person with whom I used to share my daily life with.

Suggestion please.

Counting on senior to help out this junior ♥️

13mo ago
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SparklyNoodle
SparklyNoodle

You felt something,took a shot, didn't worked out, no worries, move on, someone else will come into your life.

SqueakyUnicorn
SqueakyUnicorn
Student13mo

Wonder if this much I can give to someone else

FluffyWaffle
FluffyWaffle
Swiggy13mo

Think of it this way. If you can give something / someone this much, you can surely replicate this albeit every interaction is unique. You won't find someone EXACTLY like her again. So instead of looking for the same person, look for the same feeling. Find someone who puts you at ease or comfort.

ZestyQuokka
ZestyQuokka
Hinge13mo

But what made you think she was considering a romantic turn to your friendship? Just because she talked to you everyday doesn't mean she felt for you.

I'm sorry the situation wasn't in your favour, but sometimes it is for the best

SqueakyUnicorn
SqueakyUnicorn
Student13mo

We used to flirt alot Long calls on weekends
Regular chats She used to intimate meet-ups ...and many more :)

DancingTaco
DancingTaco

That’s why I say friendship and relationship are different. Friendship should be there in a relationship but not vice-versa.

SparklyBiscuit
SparklyBiscuit

Wow.... 8 years Have you watched "Meri pyari bindu". You don't need to feel sorry, or lost about it. She was not yours , she is not yours that's it. Enjoy what you got, and let her enjoy what she lost. Pyar to sab karte hai. Lekin koi aapse pyaar kare, ye sabko naseeb nahi hota. So you're not in any kind of loss. Be happy

SqueakyUnicorn
SqueakyUnicorn
Student13mo

Will see meri pyari Bindu Thanks for suggesting

SparklyBiscuit
SparklyBiscuit

Watch it .. but don't replicate it in your own life... I have been through a similar situation, so I know, you will definitely come out.

PerkyWalrus
PerkyWalrus
CARS2413mo

Gym jaao, bench press maar

GigglyWalrus
GigglyWalrus

Sigma spotted

TwirlyNarwhal
TwirlyNarwhal

+1 @Rhombus

WobblyBiscuit
WobblyBiscuit

If she never had a boyfriend that she was desiring for then she is looking for that and may be she wanted someone who you weren't my friend (every girl has a different criteria,) but you were her comfort zone but never felt that spark for you ,

SqueakyUnicorn
SqueakyUnicorn
Student13mo

She never had a bf

WobblyBiscuit
WobblyBiscuit

Exactly what I told you , actually the problem is this social media nowadays which are setting their bars high which is not a realistic thing most of the times

JumpyWalrus
JumpyWalrus

Get another girl habibi. Go to Dubai for vacation with new girl

SquishyQuokka
SquishyQuokka
Gojek13mo

Move on buddy. Life is long and life is good. Deepinder also moved on from his IIT wife to Mexican model Grecia Munoz.

DerpyQuokka
DerpyQuokka
EY13mo

It could be Jaane tu ya Jaane na type situation. Give her some time and she might have feelings for you considering how much you care for her. Girls always take time to decide, their first response is always no even if it is yes in their mind. They will never say yes first. Call it attitude or wanting more attention or flirting from you, they will expect more efforts from guys to propose and win their hearts. That’s why women are from Venus and men are from Mars.

SqueakyUnicorn
SqueakyUnicorn
Student13mo

Giving me hopes??

BubblyNugget
BubblyNugget

Lol No ! Don’t ever go back to the One who Said NO .

JumpyDonut
JumpyDonut
Swiggy13mo

Happened with me too, move on man, don’t go back to her, some girls are fond of guys because they love attention from guy friends. Romantically they look for something else though

SqueakyUnicorn
SqueakyUnicorn
Student13mo

Did you found someone else?

SqueakyUnicorn
SqueakyUnicorn
Student13mo

Did you found someone else?

WobblyNugget
WobblyNugget

As you have gained the experience of what to/how to talk to a women. You can focus on your career.

You did not mention your age. So build your career and keep yourself fit. Let love happen naturally/organically which will last longer.

WobblyNugget
WobblyNugget

Your experience of handling women will help you later when you find the right women or she finds you.

SqueakyUnicorn
SqueakyUnicorn
Student13mo

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