SwirlyJellybean
SwirlyJellybean

Arranged Marriages are so scary

Seeing the AM posts and the expectations of men here on GV is so infuriating. Double standards at its peak!

6mo ago
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FluffyKoala
FluffyKoala

Every choice has its own pros & cons.

If you decide to opt for the traditional route of arranged marriage, you will run into more men with traditional and patriarchal mentality. Why is that a surprise?

Otherwise go the modern route, and date guys until you find the right one for love marriage, who matches you in your modern thinking and mental outlook.

Each of the above options has its own pros & cons. You have to choose which one is the right one for you. Being infuriated with the consequences of your choices will not help. Good luck! 👍

PrancingMuffin
PrancingMuffin

Don't be scared by noise. Be clear with your expectations and honest on your revelations.

PerkyWalrus
PerkyWalrus

Less clarity Less common sense Less openness
Less acknowledgement More scary

SwirlyJellybean
SwirlyJellybean

🥲

BubblyCupcake
BubblyCupcake

In my opinion it’s actually not . I have been married for 9 years now and we are happy. All one needs is patience and love :)

SwirlyMuffin
SwirlyMuffin

Everybody wants freedom. But the issue comes when they get to know their definition of "freedom".

PerkyPanda
PerkyPanda

Everyone is double standard. Both men and women. People stopped thinking about what theu can do for others and are only thinking about what he or she is bringing to the table.

ZoomyPancake
ZoomyPancake
Student6mo

Wht double standards do you mean?

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