QuirkyNoodle
QuirkyNoodle

Arrange Marriage || Past Discussion

Is it okay if a girl is telling her past whom you met for an arranged marriage.

11mo ago
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9 min AI interview5 questions
Round 1 by Grapevine
ZippyJellybean
ZippyJellybean

That's the issue with arranged marriages...if you tell your past, your partner gets stuck into the past. If you don't, then afterwards your partner will say why did you hide. Kare to kare kya, bole to bole kya...

DerpyJellybean
DerpyJellybean
Eloelo11mo

Coming from a girl: Its okay if she’s opening up to you but listen carefully what she’s telling if you can’t deal/be okay with it please move on. Sometimes people tend to live in past and it affects overall peace of present.

PrancingNoodle
PrancingNoodle
Zomato11mo

People really don't change. Just don't be someone’s plan B

JazzyCoconut
JazzyCoconut
Oracle11mo

It's perfectly fine. But you should also clearly ask that whether the past is really the past or not. If its past then its fine otherwise this might be an opening for her to insert her past to both of your future.

BouncyWaffle
BouncyWaffle

I guess that's the best way to know more about the Character of the Girl 😂. If she has any bad past and how she overcame. You can also figure out whether she is lying or not.

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