Are you happy….?

Cities are spiritually bankrupt. Working everyday just to enjoy a 2 week vacation is unsustainable. We need to live life like how our grandfather lived.

I tell all my friends, never sell your village house. Keep it, we all have to go back one day. It's just a matter of when.

Welcome to early adulthood!🤪

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You my friend are suffering from being spoilt by your own lifestyle. Back in the days, did you have access to the andha paise ? Were you able to buy everything you wanted ? No. So, what happened then ? When you did something or brought something, you VALUED it. Yes, you valued every millimeter of the material you brought. You valued every second spent on something that you did. That was your dopamine hit.

But now ? You have access to everything easily. But do you value it ? No. You brought that gym membership. But do you value it or just ended up taking it for granted and ignored it ? You found that diet plan that you know will help you. But do you really value it ? Bcz it looks like you didn't and you just nudged it away like that spam notification you swiped away. You want to learn something new, but do you value that new ? Or is it just that you wanted to keep yourself distracted from something for sometime and the original goal was to never learn it, but was only hope you reap the benefits it would give you eventually ?

Think about it.

It is so strange, you were full of life when you had nothing and wanted to achieve something, but now that you have achieved something you see no interest in it? Is it because society is driving your goals? Introspect whether your 18 yr old self would be happy with where you are right now and feel some gratitude, and don't force yourself to change anything, you will evolve and see the point in doing things which you are doing right now

Happens bro.
I hate being in my comfort zone. And I think that’s your problem too.

I switched sub-teams internally multiple times within just 3 years of joining my present company, just because I got adjusted to it. And somehow learning new things helped me get rid of this boredom.

Also, if you can maintain curiosity (could be for tech, could for anything else) that provides with you a sense of purpose. Saying this because, I have been extremely curious about AI recently, and I am having the urge to learn that too.

Getting a good salary at the beginning of career doesn’t mean we are settled for life, look up higher, and what more you can do - not just financially - but in a higher order, a true satisfaction.

I think we all must find something to ponder around, and that will give us a sense of purpose.

Join Consulting and you won't even have enough time to think about what to do.

Check your Vitamin B levels 🌝

You're just 21, so maybe you've just started with your career. Ideally, you should not be feeling low like this, given you have friends and bought the things you wanted to.

This happens when your mind is subconsciously craving for something you don't have and you don't even realize it. It might be a partner, or a distant dream of yours that remains unfulfilled.
You can introspect yourself and retrospect your entire life, maybe you'll be able to find that missing piece.

And kindly stop yourself from investing too much time into social media. You can use it in moderation and responsibly, for information purpose as well. It's also possible that with all this scrolling, you're subconsciously comparing yourself with others and that is what is draining all the energy and happiness out of you. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Kindly keep doing the things that excite you, that you really love doing. Hangout with friends if possible. And spend quality time with yourself as well.
Hope you start feeling happy from within again!