Are girls only looking for high CTC boys for marriage instead of true love ?
high CTC here means more than 12 LPA in hand
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Girls want high ctc, own home (separately from parents), own car, good family background, if possible handsome also.
Dont marry to them who ask for your ctc. I married to a girl who didn't ask and I'm happy
Don't marry a girl who you expect to cook, clean, grow a human being in their body and look after your babies and your home if you can't provide her financial security and think love is enough to survive. And list for a wife duties don't end here as well
Yes CTC of boys should be higher even if a girl's own CTC is half of it or even less. Don't expect any household work from them.
Secondly, due to indian law, a girl always has priority over the boy. Feminism is also playing major role in breaking indian families.
True love! Lol! Grow up. No money, no happiness. No happiness, no love.
Only few, men & women, look for true love. Do many women have the checklist you see in other comments? Yes. Do all these men have checklists of their own? Absolutely. As a man, are you willing to marry overweight or dusky girls? There are plenty. Men want women who are beautiful by societal standards, willing to live with their parents and much more but cry when those women have high standards for lifestyle. Women want men who are financially very well off but cry that such men are only looking for beauty, not ātrue loveā. A woman s options are dictated by her looks and a man s are dictated by his money. Is that ideal? No. Reality? Yes. So if as a man or woman, you donāt have much of what the opposite gender is looking for, you should be putting more on the table than normal. It is really as simple as that.
Reality does hit hard ha
Bride income x5 == Groom income
Fairly common equation in my part of India, YMMV
Ymmv?
65%Yes indicates more Grapevine user are single boys š, this is indirectly a survey to find rejected users.š¤£
There was an era when parents used to search for a good boy for their daughter. Now, they are searching for a good girl for their son.
The reasonā¦
Most boys are well behaved in this generation, they just have to pick up the one earning more or having more assets.
On the other hand, itās difficult to find a girl now who is ready for adjusting in a marriage setup.
Why is it expected only from girls to be ready for adjustment? Are boys ready for the same as well? And do you really think most boys are well behaved? I don't think so
Yes, boys are ready for adjustment, without mentioning about it. Yes, most boys are well behaved.
Get rid of your feminist bias and be rational.
Donāt marry , i married for love ab bs kaam wali bai banke reh gae hu ghar ka bhi karo and office ka bhi
Ig bs kismat ka khel h and perception ka