Anyone who thinks relationships are not for them?
I've been thinking about this a lot as I grow older. I don't have a lot of friends, but I'm fine with that, any more feels like too much effort. A lot of people my age are on dating apps day in day out to find a partner. But I don't feel the urge to do this. Sure, having someone understanding would be interesting but it's also hit and miss and entails too much effort that I don't wish to put. I think I'll be much more content being alone and occasionally having good connections.
Does anyone feel the same way?
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I gave this response somewhere else. I think it makes sense here too.
Yeah same here! Not interested in having any relationship.
Sometimes when vibes match with some one, I get swayed into an imaginary world where I'm doing something to make them happy, taking a walk together etc etc.
But reality hits soon realising that the character we are imagining are not how real humans are, they are nuanced and a bad character as equally as they are good. Also the fact that i'm not as perfect as to ask someone to be included in their life when chances are high that I'll end up being a subject of hate and disgust to them gradually.
Yes here. I think I'm gonna marry directly! Anyways that's what is going with my life parents are looking for good rishtas. In couple of years shaadi hojayegi so no room for any relationship imo
Marriage with someone is also a relationship. @PatraniMacchi is this what you meant as well? Going for Areanged marriage?
Yassir... I have negligible friends as well. Very less social skills, bad vocabulary. Not so good life. Voluntarily voted myself out of the girl/relationship/marriage stuff. Have started combat sports recently. Planning to do that for life and keep adding more adrenaline sports on the way while trying to become rich to feed this life I'm creating.
Planning to die in snow while skiing... After everything is done.
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Yes 🤚I feel the phase in my life is over. I am 28 rn. I had a breakup back in 2020 post that was in recovery phase for an year and then hoe phase and then back to normal loving myself phase.
In the past 2 years I have met people whom I really liked and they like me back,vibe match, personality match etc but are already in a relationship or married. Few of them were so good that in my head I made up scenarios like if they ever had a divorce I’d marry them and keep the kid,but yeah I was late,had we met earlier it would’ve been perfect.
Right now I feel happy looking at people in love and also want to give myself a chance again and am ready to give it all once again. But making an effort to go out and meet people,putting myself at places just to meet people feels forced. I am living in a delulu that love should come to us without us forcing it. Which is why I am not in dating apps, and even if I am there I get swiped only by the fake profiles or telegram women.
But anyways the only places I’d be is either at office or at the gym or on a trip with friends so the chances of finding love are minimal. Most of the times I don’t feel the urge of wanting someone to love me,but you know,you see a perfect couple having their time and only then you realise, being alone and content is good but with a partner with shared interests is equally good or even better.
Same here.... Being with someone now feels like a burden... Never had much friends since childhood so I have two modes sometimes I am so vulnerable that I blurt out everything to anyone hoping they lend a ear and sometimes I think that no one cares about me and thus make myself suffer everything in silence.. The thought of having someone who can seriously keep myself in her mind seems a far distant...