SwirlyMuffin
SwirlyMuffin

Affairs: The wrong turn

What do people get out of affairs? Why they are not happy with one? How can they sleep peacefully betraying life-partner? I mean how can they even make eye-contact? Do they not have any fear of morals, God or anything? Is it some specific culture they are trying to adapt to? From where they are drawing inspiration to continue to do that? even many animals prefer to have only one partner keeping respect. And if one is wrong why the other encourage to continue so? Why they dont correct them that its a matter of no glory to destroy a married life and pushing at the brink of divorce? Whats the point of such money? They should know that being independent is one thing and having freedom is another.

Terminology alert "freedom".

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FluffyDumpling
FluffyDumpling
TCS2d

Sometimes when you are not happy in your marriage or you do not get what you want from your spouse you start finding that outside That is the major reason

SwirlyMuffin
SwirlyMuffin

I agree conflcts and issues ho jate hain... but uske liye you have to sit, talk and resolve na.. rather than just leaving the problem unaddressed altogether.

FluffyDumpling
FluffyDumpling
TCS2d

Spouses specially men do not seat and talk

GroovyMarshmallow
GroovyMarshmallow

the right term is greed, greed ego and multiple other factors, women facilitate it for greed, it’s a snake of greed

GroovyMarshmallow
GroovyMarshmallow

self eating snake of greed which is never satisfied as they never figured out an exit

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SwirlyMuffin
SwirlyMuffin

I'm not saying only women.. whosoever does wrong is the subject of the discussion.

PeppyQuokka
PeppyQuokka

From your point of view I agree ppl should not betray/cheat to their innocent life partner when they are virgin and decent. They should respect the relationship and be reliable. But on the other hand there is no way of cheating with the spouse who already has a relationship outside marriage, so it's a tit for tat philosophy to apply. I also feel bad about the innocent husband when the wife has extra marital affairs behind the scene and for the innocent wife when her husband has affairs outside- mostly in the office. Nowadays ppl just get married for the name of society but the actual enjoyment they do outside and it's very painful for the innocent spouse who has no idea about the double face of his/her better -half

SwirlyMuffin
SwirlyMuffin

Yes, and I dont know how "enjoyment" suits.. its a shit thing..but i dont see a way to fix this. May be west is inspiring them... its just by associating a name makes it sound great..

"Live-in relationship"

SillyNoodle
SillyNoodle
TCS2d

People here will try to give excuses, but cheating is a decision, neither a choice nor a mistake. You make a conscious decision when you decide to betray your partner. Now a days everywhere on social media you will see people making all sorts of excuses but that isn't true. The reason isn't that the cheaters didn't get love. If that was the case, they can get a divorce.
But no the cheaters want both sides, the partner for the stability they provide and the side woman/man for fun

WigglyUnicorn
WigglyUnicorn

Dayum Sick comments backing up with explanations... Sick AF

SwirlyMuffin
SwirlyMuffin

Never expected

GoofyHamster
GoofyHamster

IF YOU CAN THINK OF AN AFFAIR YOU SHOULD NOT BE MARRIED IN THE FIRST PLACE.

SwirlyMuffin
SwirlyMuffin

Hmm...usko relationship bolte hain... and after marriage affair :) Zamana came a long way bro..

GoofyHamster
GoofyHamster

It all starts with a thought and a choice

CosmicLlama
CosmicLlama

I support affairs as am a feminist. Every woman has a right to get into a relationship. Men cannot deny that just because they are married.

SwirlyMuffin
SwirlyMuffin

We are not denying maam. Do whatever you want. I'm just telling be clear and transparent about this thought process to the gonna be guy. That I am looking for others but "at the back of my mind you will always be there" ...

You remember what Deepika said.. so she was clear.

Bura hona galat nhi h.. but bura hoke khud ko acha kehna galat h.

BouncyPenguin
BouncyPenguin

Chalo kisi ne to self-label kar liya ache se

JumpyQuokka
JumpyQuokka

Someone told me, "Money and S*x are driving this world"

JumpyQuokka
JumpyQuokka

If it is unbalanced in one's life, things happen

SwirlyMuffin
SwirlyMuffin

As long as things are within limits..its okay..but only prioritizing these two is actually a disaster atleast from my pov

TwirlyBurrito
TwirlyBurrito

I dont know man I am guy married since past 6 years love my wife but still i feel like having an affair, because i am jit satisfied with all the chaos with the disrespect and everything else and let me be very clear honestly intent is not to be physical always just a coffee simple conversations , am i wrong

SwirlyMuffin
SwirlyMuffin

Tricky to answer for me :::

ZestyWalrus
ZestyWalrus

For men it's a two word "Adreline rush"

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