{ADVICE} Social Media influenced my sexual preferences more than Porn ever did...
I’ve been married for six years now. She is smart, honest, and super loyal. But our intimate life is extremely uninteresting. I have a high libido, always ready to try new things. She on the other hand, is more like, "Bed only, at night only."
Surprisingly, it’s not porn that’s messed with my head. I’ve watched my fair share, but it never changed my real-life expectations. What really gets to me are these Instagram reels about sex. I see couples our age, exploring, having fun, and it makes me feel like I'm missing out. They’re full of energy and life, and here I am, feeling like my youth is slipping away.
It’s frustrating when I think I could be out there enjoying myself with someone who’s as adventurous as me. Instead, I’m here, stuck in a loop, wishing things were different.
Any advice?
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@Gooner7 Its pretty common in a couple now a days, u r not alone in the room bro. And this usually happens few years down the line post marriage and it is also not gender specific. The best way is to talk to your partner, share clear expectations and try to find and fix the concerns they have. Let me tell u, this is also not limited to physical adventures. If u feel things do not work out well, you always have a choice. Its up to u, whether u want to live crushing your desires everyday or you feel you can bless yourself some day🫂
Social media ruins everything. People project their fears/expectations onto you. Don't watch em. Respect your partners needs. And also share your expectations and/or needs. Mutual understanding is the way to go
I am married since 3 years and young too. And haven’t done sex as I found my husband is a gay. Only 2-3 times I have done with him but it was unsatisfying or like a child. Don’t know how to say.
He is not accepting it till date and claiming that he is bi but he is not. And now my physical needs at peak. Don’t know what to do
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But hasn’t Goldman Sachs f*cked you in all ways possible?