Advice Needed on relationship
Hi all. I would really appreciate your advice and guidance. I've been in a relationship for the past 25 days with a woman who is 4 years older than me. My last relationship was 8 years back post breakup I was depressed and never really liked anyone. My current GF had a couple of past relationships... She's 31 and I'm 27. It has been good for the past 25 days but for the past 1 week she's been talking too much about marriage and stuff. I agree she's in her age and may be having family pressure. But I don't know what her past was. What is the story and why all of sudden she is suddenly rushing things. I need honest advice I should take. I already feel something sus ☹️Thank you 😃
I have seen some of my friends marrying a 5 yrs older woman. Every relationship is based on trust and communication.
Being a woman, I'll give you a small tip. Every woman wants to spend a good time with their partner before they get married to know them. If she's talking a lot about marriage, tell her this : Hey seems like you want to take our relationship forward and you're thinking about marriage. And I'm happy about that but here's a catch. I'm just 27, I still have few commitments and still in a stage where I can't have another commitment.
I want to give my partner a good life. If I already have a commitment and marry my partner then I'm stuck between multiple commitments and I don't know what to fulfill first. And I don't want a life like this for you.
Why don't we spend good time with each other before the marriage, let's say 6 months and get to know each other really well and then take any step forward, and by then my other commitments would be over.
I do love you and want us to be happy, but let's be in this moment for sometime. I don't want us to lose this time....
Take your time man...she is a woman too...she might be getting impatient due to the circumstances and pressure but that doesn't mean u rush into things...take things slow...if it is meant to work out...then God willing, it will...peace
She is grandma her time is ticking... Better to leave her asap otherwise once she gets to know you are not gonna marry her but just enjoying the relationship... She will bring consequences...
