A School friend who still thinks about his ex gf, used me for his fun.

Ye sahi hai, first get involved with some idiot, low character fellow, and the tell all the women that don't listen to any men's word? You made mistakes in your judgement, there are shit people all around us, it is us who have to be careful in investing our time and energy! Anyway, if things didn't go well, just move on, why waste time again crying over it, learn and move on. That guys don't deserve another second of your time.

From my personal experience stay away from people who broke up after long relationships. They need hella lot of time to overcome it. It is needed to get past the memories and move forward and very few have the courage to do it. Stay away from emotionally unavailable, extremely stubborn and immature people.

In this YES that guy was wrong.
But girls like you do mistakes too. You knew he had previous relations, never guaranteed you the clear relations with you.
It is you who neglected these and yet preceeded because you liked him, you liked his things, deeds, whatever it is, you liked it and hoped he will be with you always.

There r plenty good guys that are too much loyal. But things with them is girls never look up to those. Because girls always like to have some spicy, odd, macho, different relationships.

Guys are too good to fool girls.
Girls are too dumb to trust and give away everything they have.

Never be physical if you want to marry that person.
First get assurance, wedding, or parent meet. Then only think about proceeding ahead step by step.

Be physical only if you want to be physically involved. No other intentions.
If you have other intentions I would recommend not to get physical until there's fixed assurance.

Always a man 😂😂 as if women never do anything.

Why do I always feel these kinds of posts are random fake posts?
Like a real person will not randomly reveal so much about their personal life on the internet.

@HustleCroc I understand what you are going through. It's really really bad. Honestly, such men don't deserve to be here. How do such people face themselves in mirror??!! Why can't such people be more honest in what they want! Why do they need to have this fake faceeee always!! It gonna be difficult but it's important to cut him off completely and never ever listen to any of his word, because may be a good manipulator. 🔴🔴😡 I don't know who would be a right guy for you, but I just know he is not the one. The right one doesn't hurt you, doesn't make you keep guessing, and most importantly doesn't get intimate without commitment of long term (yes, all those causal guys/girls are not the right one!!) It will take time to heal. And I again feel bad that it happened to you.

Hey, just forget about it, think it as it was a bad dream cz now you can't change the past so there is no meaning in thinking about it, just talk to friends, go out and have fun. That guy will suffer because of his karma, you have not done anything wrong so just chill and yeah probably you should definitely think twice before committing🙂

Agree, but not all men are same. Hope so you'll definitely find a right person at right time.

Really I believe this below quote so stay put, Be happy.

"Everything Happens For A Reason"

So how does this "serious" relationship and "casual" relationship thing work? You remain just F* buddies with your options kept open till you find a better person or then also is it continued for the sake of having an "option"?

I was in the same situation as you, still not able to heal and get over him.