Friends in Bangalore
Can someone tell me how to meet up new and genuine people in Bangalore ? I feel like talking in person, am I overthinking?
Hey Bengaluru family, listen up. 23-year-old Telugu techie stuck in the wonderful world of startups. Don't get me wrong, the work's exciting, but the social life? Let's just say the only Dosa I'm getting these days is the one I ordered from (IYKWIM).
Now, I wouldn't be here crying into my filter coffee if it wasn't for the lovely ladies. Yes, you heard that right. I want friends—female friends! Don't get any ideas; it's all very innocent. I just crave a normal social circle that doesn't involve endless PUBG matches with the same five dudes.
The problem? Fear. It hits me like a Bangalore autorickshaw in rush hour—paralyzing. Talking to girls at work feels like navigating the Koramangala traffic—one wrong turn and it's chaos. I try to be friendly, with a simple "hey" or a compliment on their saree, but my Telugu accent goes into overdrive, and suddenly I sound like I'm serenading a cow instead of a coworker.
Look, I know online dating exists, but trust me, swiping right on girls who look like they could be on a Kannada movie poster isn't exactly leading to meaningful connections. I want to meet people organically, over chai at a local cafe, or maybe at one of those fancy rooftop bars (minus the fear, of course).
So, here's my plea to the Bengaluru Redditverse: any advice for a shy Telugu techie who just wants to expand his friend circle beyond dudes and delivery guys? Should I take a Kannada class to improve my small talk? Is there a secret handshake for "normal conversation with girls" that I haven't been invited to? Help a brother out, y'all!
P.S. Bonus points if you know any Telugu-speaking girl groups in Bangalore looking for a new member (who can also bring the best biryani recommendations). I'm just throwing it out there.
Please hesitate
I can get your perspective brother
Having a female interaction is much more than what people think
It gives us the emotional stability, most of the things I share with my female i never imagine to share with my male friends
My only advice is this
Don't treat them as they have came from different planet, these movies and stuff has messed up people's minds
See them just as a normal human being
More than anything just be happy and have certain stillness in you
It doesn't matter boy or girl, everyone will get attracted to positivity and peace
Don't go to extreme measures listening to random advice
If you want to meet strangers and actually make genuine connections
There are many communities in Bangalore who host events both paid and free ones
There is one called 'We play banglore' search in Instagram, founder is kannada so you can expect kannada people too as you wanted to learn
Probably go to meet ups around your domain like if you are a designer go to design meetups etc
In these places you will get a lot of common ground to talk to and make friends
Hope you get what wished for Brother
Happy Bangalore!
Desperate guy🤣
Better option is start looking in church street🤣
As one of my telegite friend says - “Telugu accent is part of that charm”. It took time for him to move from “damn! Koi bhaav nai de raha“ to .. “ sorry bhai.. aaj date hai”- so am sure you will be okay - don’t run away from the dry spell. It’s there for a reason - someone else is getting dosa 🫢
Try your hand on hobbies that has a larger women ratio-reading, crocheting, bird watching...you get the drift. Attend these social activities and have conversations organically
Find events here, go participate and make friends
Can someone tell me how to meet up new and genuine people in Bangalore ? I feel like talking in person, am I overthinking?
Just an startup employee working on Saturday looking for a girl to be friends anyone in?
I tried dating but could not find anyone with basic criteria like vegetarian and height of 180 cm atleast. So currently looking for just friends. Thank you. No hate comments.