30M scared to get married.

Out of every 100 days I have lived with my wife. 7-10 days are unpleasant. But 15-20 days are the happiest ones. For the rest of the days I am just satisfied and content and focused on my work and we both just spend time together.

I was too scared of getting married 2 years ago, I used to ask my senior colleagues how to deal with wives, what If I get a partner who does this/that and asked so many questions.

Most of the experienced senior people said that no partner is 100% perfect, and everyone has flaws. We need to accept a few flaws, help the partner to overcome them in a few months if they want to overcome their bad habits.

Thus, after getting married I can see the positive changes in myself. Me and my wife have solved many of our behavioural flaws by just talking and confronting about it.

I am learning and falling in love deeper everyday with my wife. We argue/fight also, but the love between us brings us together within few hours.

Never stretched any fight for more than 1 day.

I hope this gives some clarity to you regarding post-marriage experience if you get a good partner.

Bitches be crazy bruh. Stay safe out there homies.

The horror stories have started to come to light only recently otherwise men have always been seen as the monster. Witnessed way too many cases in the last 10 years.

This is side affect of having s*x before marriage. People are loosing urge of having that

I think marriage has been scary at every point in history

Me too sailing on the same boat, 38M and above that to add to my woes ,single as well 🤣

Many good discussions,ideas ,tips etc on r/arrangedmarriage .

I gave up on searching after multiple stupid experiences. I wasn't really able to connect with anyone. Trying to get to know over texts, going on dates only to feel like when is this date gonna be over.. it all felt superficial and exhausting. I'm 33.

Marriage requires commitment and change from self. Be ready to understand the perspective of other side before marriage

Your body count?