[2AM thoughts] You cannot fix dating life and career at the same time
It's either or one after the other
Talking product sense with Ridhi
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You fix one first and then fix one later.
personal belief is that always fix career first, dating life takes care of itself eventually. at the end of the day a girl looks for (financial) security over everything else. hard truth but true. and yes exceptions exist.
A woman is judged by her beauty. Man has to provide. It’s plain & simple
People can. Key is not to have an impossible benchmark or high expectations.
Would rather have the best of both. Maybe that's high expectations
Your criteria for best is mimetic. (Is a degree of comparison, no two ways about it). So, you will never be satisfied no matter what, cos there is always something more you could have had. Seeing it as a utility function solves both career and dating, but not when you look at it as an optimization problem.
Focus on career ,, these days that’s what I valued by partners more..
You can do both
You need discipline to make both happen. Professional people are too disciplined when it comes to their career and not disciplined enough when it comes to their personal life.
Don’t be a corporate robot and a deadbeat at relationships.