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JumpyUnicorn
JumpyUnicorn
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29M Single and Unmarried! Never into love or relationship! Arranged marriage are never gonna be easier these days!

So, friends are suggesting to speak/approach girls on the office campus ! Is that a wise thing to do? Of course a Casual talk, But not really into such a thing before! How would girls take it when an unknown person is coming to them and starting a convo! Grapevine girls, kindly suggest what you think about it!!

4mo ago
WobblyCoconut
WobblyCoconut
4mo

I would suggest to create your profile in the matrimonial sites like shaadi.com, jeevansaathi.com, etc

JumpyUnicorn
JumpyUnicorn
4mo

Done but it's not working out either

MagicalMuffin
MagicalMuffin
4mo

However you decide to end up getting married (love or arranged) make sure all your assets are in the name of your parents (especially mother) before marriage so that if things go sideways, your finances are protected to an extent.

JumpyUnicorn
JumpyUnicorn
4mo

Woah , noted ! What an idea sir ji! Kamaal

FloatingBagel
FloatingBagel
4mo

Friends come naturally in project or in office. Trying to search a friend with an end goal is a bummer and you may end up hurting your image more than getting a company. May be find a hobby, join some classes and you may bump into people with similar interests and that might lead you somewhere.

Also, no one is 100% perfect, even people who are in relationships for long long year find new things about their partners once they start living together in a marriage, so may be try to just find someone who is compatible to you instead of searching someone who excels in all the areas.. will make your search easier

JumpyUnicorn
JumpyUnicorn
4mo

True words indeed,thanks for your suggestions 😊

WigglyQuokka
WigglyQuokka
4mo

I would say look at your own classmates batch mates.. juniors. Etc. and then lookup where r they. Getting married to known people is much easier

BubblyPancake
BubblyPancake
4mo

Bro use tinder. If u go in office approaching girls like this it will land up in posh and besides your image in offiec will become veery negative. Use tinder if u want to date else matrimonial sites for marriage.

FloatingMochi
FloatingMochi
4mo

You need to have friends first, male or female doesn't matter. Ping your college or school if you have old good condition, in text you can ask just remind old days. Join a gym or some trip or trek,to make new friends. You won't know someone until you step outside your room

SillyNoodle
SillyNoodle
4mo

From a woman's perspective, no don't approach women in office. We are here to work and will usually be uncomfortable by such advances of strange men.

I would suggest you to have organic friendships with people in your own team. You can look at dating sites as well.
At the end, you need to be clear on what you want. Example if you are looking for a housewife kind of a woman, just ask around amongst your relatives. If you are looking for working women, then try to use dating sites

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