27M feeling like loser
Is it normal for a 27M to not have any gf till now and only hoping for arranged marriage? How much percentage of Indian men usually have a gf by my age?
Yes it’s totally normal.
Why you didn’t consider marriage?
Look, I understand roaming and exploring with opposite gender looks cool and appealing. But if you are ready to give commitment to a gf then why not wife.
I think this is perfect age to marry. Grow and learn together, travel together, worry together, manage finance and home together. Build your legacy together.
And what is your expectation with the gf? Her time? Her opinion? Sex? Showoff?
If you want all- shadi karlo
If you want specific- meet the professional
Ladki log k alag chal rha h, unko 27/28 tk shaadi nahi karna because they want to be strong independent women and explore the world. Aur 30/32 ke bad koi jaldi puchta v nahi unse ki shaadi karlo. Is time tk inka sara exploration khtm ho chuka hota h. Aur ladke v jaldi nahi milte. Fir bas rejection, disappointment, self doubt hota h.
Better - faltu ke hawa pani se utho, find a suitable bride. And experience life together.
Gf ke chakkar/khoz mein rahoge, to milegi. Koi na koi na to mil hijayegi. Par bhai bahut locha hai.
Make sure ki “tmko kya chahiye” before giving commitment to someone .
Kaise milti hai gf if one doesn't have good looks ?
Bhai you are working at MS why you are thinking small and feeling like loser if you don’t have gf in my hometown beautiful girls have black nigga bf it’s not a big thing to have gf . It’s hard in Bangalore as ratio of men to women are 70:30 which I felt .
How is the ratio good in your hometown?
"Black nigga bf" kya hota hai
Not having a gf is fine but have female friends atleast,you can learn about women (helps in your own relationship) and also helps in character development.
Chill out you're in MS. Having gf is not a flex. Its just hyped up by weak men.
Boys like you get fleeced in the arranged marriage market. Spend a year dating at least 3-4 women. Women your age have dated more and have more experience. You'll be outmatched in the relationship dynamics.
bro just cold approach
Bro just stop doubting yourself. Don't hinder your personality around girls. Yes it is one accept of life. Morden women evolved and priorities there ambitions and goals than traditional roles. It's time to understand and need to evolved Men as well.
Have a solo trip and enjoy. Don't worry about the things which you dont have control.
And you got this feeling.. just because you felt the need and realized you don't have one...
Or
Saw some of your friends or colleagues?
Or
Instagram etc ??
Anyway, I don't know the stats..but based on what I have observed.. conversion rate is very low.. i.e. gf bf getting married.
That's okay if you are single but if you have a good friend or group of friends to share your feelings with then you are already blessed and In case you want to have a partner then you can search within your circle or meet through friends. No harm in dating
