23M confused, should I continue living?
Failed a lot in life, multiple chances I gave to myself. 25K JEE Rank, failed it, got tier 2 college Fucked up my drop didn't studied anything practically 4 years college, no life, no Friends, only tried to study and got stuck in a loophole of burnouts People I know achieved everything, good placement, good memories, some even had partners and above everything, they managed to live by keeping everything balanced.
Got an internship on campus, converted it to PPO in july, 10 LPA all base almost. From July 24 to June 25 I had fucking almost a year to crack another offer But no, I didn't studied and succumb to laziness.
The others who got their PPO with me, all of them cracked better offers twice their CTC and some even thrice to that.
I have been rejected all my life, I have zero dressing sense, short (179 cm or 5 10.5) and in short zero sexual appeal.
Earlier I wanted to live a life, have a family of my own, have a partner to age together, keep her happy with my hobbies of drawing and poetry, but I guess, that's not for me.
I am a loser, and even after given multiple chances, I will not improve.
Death I promised to myself and couldn't even do it, because didn't have the confidence.
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Lol. In what world is 5' 11" short?
Just said, what I have been told on my face
Baki, can you help bhai, kuch samajh nhi aa rha kya karun mai
Another bakwas post, 5’10” height and crying of short height. 10 LPA salary when lakhs of others are working at 3-5 lpa. Bhai, rona hai to rote raho, koi kuch nahi kar salta hai. Mera ek friend Google me hai, to main kya karun, mar jaun!! 🤦♂️
Also, abhi naukri lagi nahi, aur partner wagaireh sab chahiye. Padhai likhai karo, thoda career banao pehle, ye mungeri laal wale sapne dekhne band karo. Even after getting into job, 40-60% of guys must be without any partner/gf, but hardly few of them goes around crying on that aspect.
Bhai post ka direction galat le gaye aap 5 10 short hai ya nhi, nhi pta Muh par short bola zarur gya Hun, kayi bar.
Bhai baki genuinely puch rha hun, kuch samjh nhi aa rha
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I see,
You didn't answered the question
The answer is it's not too deep
If you want the life you want - work for it,
If you think you can't change stuff Abt you (height) - get other things perfect
If your job pays less - prepare for better
If you don't have friends - improve your communication and interact with people with no expectations
As Seneca famously said, All men die, but not all die complaining. Fix the things you can, and leave the rest to fate
Things you are cribbing about are literally what place you around top 10% of in the country. Around 1% men in India are above 6ft in height (you're just an inch shorter). Less than 1% people taking JEE get into IITs. You're starting at a package of 10LPA out of college. For a fresher that also places you in the top 10%. I don't know what criteria you have set for yourself and whom are you comparing yourself with but there will always be someone better than you in every field. So try to focus on yourself to improve rather than look at what others might be doing.
Completely logical and correct.
Now since even after multiple chances, I fucked up every single time
After knowing this, why I should continue
It's time for u to grow from a boy to a man.
Stop fantasizing and start making decisions and taking actions.
Are bhai I did, I did and gave myself enough chances for 7 to 8 years, for how much long this should continue
I know ur concerns brother.
Change ur perspective .. U still have a decent job.. U can still learn stuff explore stuff.. I don't know what is the meaning of winning for u in life..
Aren't u able to feed ur parents?
Stop comparing urself with others.. If so can also compare with many ppl who still don't have job, who has beetr education than u.. What do u think of them.
There is always different perspective of looking into life.
First and foremost stop worrying so much It will only make things worst.
Just keep the hustle going even if it is till ur death. Be happy with ur progress and not with the result.
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Lol bro, are u here for sympathy? sounds more like flexing to me 10lpa first job, 5'10" tall height, I think u r just insecure seeking 3rd persons approval which u don't need to shine
Agreed to the last line but I am serious since if you have read my post, I have failed consistently following same pattern and I am pretty much done with this repetition
I don't really care if I will grow as expected
23 se 28 se 34 hona hoga ho jaunga
Par bhai, jab hugna h hai maine
Har bar k tarah, mai kyu aage jaun???
Oh shit, 5ft 10 inches is short and zero sex appeal , bro height inflation is real or bhai is delusional , utha le re deva , utha le mujh3
Bhai, kya hua
Merese to acche h dikhte hoge And you are at zomato Which is very good indeed
Must be a troll post, Bro is taller than me and thinks he's short 😂😂😂
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Are bhai, agar lamba bhi hun aapse,
Baki chezen padhi post k?
@AlltheBest Having a life itself is blessing, many people dont have that chance, what you have its blessing..
Just another way to gaslight, upto a limit this is fine, but for how long?