DancingBagel
DancingBagel
12mo

1 or 2 kids - suggestions needed

I want to have only 1 kid, may I know is there any disadvantages of 1 kid?

12mo ago
BouncyQuokka
BouncyQuokka

I remember reading this interesting piece on this topic.

"If you have 1 kid, you often wonder if you did something wrong in bringing them up when something goes wrong. If you have 2 or more kids, you will understand the difference between their individual natures and will be able to understand if you indeed did something wrong or if it's just the individual kids characteristics that resulted in something going wrong"

DerpyBurrito
DerpyBurrito

Loneliness, inability to relate and empathize on what a sibling would go through

ZestyCoconut
ZestyCoconut
12mo

2 for sure

FluffyQuokka
FluffyQuokka

The disadvantage is if u have 1 kid, u won't have 2 kids

GoofyHamster
GoofyHamster
11mo

Have kids until you got atleast one girl and boy kid

DancingBagel
DancingBagel

He he Impossible for me

WobblyPretzel
WobblyPretzel
11mo

Well , single kids get all the love and attention but then you will have to work hard to make sure he / she knows how to share and adjust with other people . When it comes to schooling and in life . Since they don’t have to compete for parents attention , they are used to having their way . But you would have to make sure they don’t replicate it with others outside of home . Also make sure one kid has to have a friend circle cause peer company is required .

2 kids is ideal , but you also need to have the finances and the time resources, education , higher studies , marriage . It’s a lot of pressure on parents . They have each other to rely on . Also older kid is more responsible and cause they have to share things in terms of love and responsibility, they become more groomed by default .

PrancingDonut
PrancingDonut

3 kids 🤠

DancingBagel
DancingBagel

🙏

PerkyPancake
PerkyPancake

Either 2 kids or no kids. 1 is not a great option.
If affordability is a concern then do not have kids, your future self would thank you immensely.

SnoozyMarshmallow
SnoozyMarshmallow

4 kids

DancingBagel
DancingBagel

😕

SillyPancake
SillyPancake
11mo

2 or more

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